Connect with your Teens
Written by
Score on September 28th, 2008
When email and then instant messaging first became popular, many articles were written about about proper etiquette while using them. However there are many people fairly new to online communications that don’t seem to have picked up on these do’s and don’ts. I’m not even speaking of kids and teens that weren’t around to read them then, because I don’t think they will listen to this advice anyway. I am writing this more for the adults that are newer to computers and communicating online.
Connect with your Teens through Pop Culture and Technology
The (full) title says it all! I’m so tired of parents who can’t stay up with culture blaming teens for listening to music, watching TV or movies, and buying technology that they (the parents) aren’t familiar with. But I’m one of them, too. Not a parent. Still, I’m from a different era: The 80’s (big hair). And so I understand that kids are born into a culture; they don’t know anything else; and I have to unlearn what used to be common knowledge and learn for the first time what they understand instinctively.
I never liked pop culture. I still don’t watch TV (to my detriment). And I’m not sure that the site author “gets it” either (she doesn’t state her age on her profile page). Sure, she watches TV. She uses the internet (she has a website, anyway). And she (apparently) reads books on technology and teens. Plus, she says her kids think she’s cool; though, sometimes that’s a bad sign….
Looking at the site today, I’m struck by how insignificant the TV shows she references are… to me. However, there are a couple of other current trends on the front page: 1. A story about Paul Newman and 2. A story about winning grains of rice that will be donated to the UN World Food Program. I’d heard about no. 1 but didn’t read up on it till now (thanks). No. 2 is less trendy and more a sign of dawning awareness than many of the other stories onsite (It’s an original idea. Her teens clued her in to it. And I approve). Plus, there are a few books referenced on back pages and a few videos…
So why do I recommend the site so enthusiastically? I know I need the heads up. I also want to stay young and hip (lol). And, mostly (like I’ve said), I think it’s important to connect with “kids” on their level. Anyway, it’s all “fresh”. It’s all “pop”. And it all shows that “dawning awareness” that clues one in to the fact that (at least some) adults are “waking up”.
It’s a new era: So where are the stories about rap? Where are the biographies of up-and-coming African Americans? Where are the Goths and Emos? And what about the dawning of new religions or the fall of capitalism? Not here! But the site is good… for what it’s good for. Some fluff. Some light-fare. A quick review of girlie TV. And bits of stories about real teens (hers) and the author’s attempt at getting to know them.
Good for a quick refresher (see the story about Internet Etiquette, quoted above). I “pop” in regularly. Wouldn’t hurt you to do so, too. BTW: Her articles seem to get lots of Diggs (don’t know what that signifies but it’s a good sign).
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